WANT MORE
PLEASURE?
If you spend most of your days exhausted...
Or, wish sex with your partner was like it used to be…
If your dating life is consistently disappointing, and you worry it will never work out
Or, you wonder how you will ever stop having the same argument with your partner…
I'm here to tell you, freedom from these perspectives is within reach.
Those mean little voices in your head that say, "It will never happen for you" or "This is just how it is" are WRONG.
You Know There Is More
Build a life bubbling with connection & Satisfaction
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When my partner…When the kids…When I’m less stressed about money…Then my spark will just come back to life, and I’ll be safe, happy, and free.
Here’s the thing. Life isn’t going to stop. There will always be something: your boss, the car, your family…
If you wait until things are “fixed” or “better” to allow yourself to experience the power of your desire, energy, and deep intimacy…you will be waiting forever.
Living by the When/Then code means your erotic life will always come last, and at best, you’ll be exhausted just trying to maintain the status quo.
You deserve WAY beyond the status quo baseline.
You deserve to experience long-lasting transformation – not just patch working together a fragile peace that quickly crumbles when you have a bad day at work, a fight with your partner, or your toddler is throwing a tantrum.
You deserve, and can have, peace of mind and resiliency for the inevitable intensity of life.
In working together, you will learn how to meet life’s inevitable challenges with ease and still have enough energy for intimacy, pleasure and connection at the end of a long day.
Really, what are you waiting for?
A Disappointing Dating Life, Low Libido & Relationship Issues Aren’t Going To Fix Themselves…
WHAT ARE YOU WAITING FOR?
To solve the problem of dissatisfaction around sex, love and relationships, women have been turning to extremes or band-aid solutions, like:
- Adopting a more masculine approach; I can sleep with whoever I want, whenever, however
- Trying physically focused, magazine headline solutions like various toys, tricks and techniques…
- Or trends like open relationships, polyamory, psychedelics, different kinks, or celibacy
These solutions can work for some people, but its the exception, not the norm.
And for most people, it’s leaving them feeling disappointed, lonely and frustrated.
When women keep trying these band-aid, surface-level solutions they dampen their aliveness while life kind of passes them by, they keep living in a loop of disappointment or frustration, and they’re haunted by a lingering dissatisfaction, knowing they’re not unlocking the full potential that they’re capable of.
But you can reclaim your power, passion and joy.
You can develop an attitude of healthy entitlement as it relates to sex, love and relationships. And when you do…
You will discover parts of yourself that are only accessible through being in connection with your erotic power.
You will learn to embrace intensity and tap into your full-spectrum aliveness so you can have more energy for your kids, work, friends, and lover.
All so you can move past this era of disappointment and disconnection, and into a new phase of life full of connection and ease.
Time For a New Era
QUICK FIXES AREN'T CUTTING IT
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Gone are the days of using band-aid solutions...
Uninspiring scheduled sex, overeager toys, awkward workshops, swiping on apps for connection…
Building your optimal sex, love and relationship life isn't about the external things; it's about going on an adventure of inner discovery.
What blocks you from the intimacy and pleasure you deserve?
How do you want to feel?
What do you like?
What is not connecting to and expressing your erotic energy and power costing you?
CREATING A LIFE WITH MORE SATISFACTION STARTS WITH LOOKING INSIDE.
In 1:1 coaching, we do precisely that.
You Can't Change Your Sexual Past, But You Can Change Your Future.
erotic fluency is a process of self-discovery
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I'm your erotic fluency coach, and my goal is to help you create relationships you love.
The erotic is a powerful container for transformation. Its a space where we can learn, be challenged, evolve, communicate, explore our bodies, power dynamics, emotional patterns, creativity, and really...every other possibility you may or may not be able to imagine at this current moment.
I've coached dozens of female-identifying people into accepting and experiencing this truth.
Why not you?
Briana
– nisa s. (28, USA)
– Lauren k. (36, USA)
“Wow, is all I can say. I felt that I had a larger breakthrough in one session with Briana than weeks or months of therapy. Briana has a gift for being able to see people at their deep cores and hold a healing, open space for them to better understand themselves. I highly recommend working with Briana, her energy is gentle and healing and her guidance is strong and knowing. Anyone open to the work would greatly benefit from even just one session with her.”
"I was with my friend, Erin, in New Mexico last week and she mentioned several times how your workshop was such a shift for her. You really helped her work through some issues with her family and prioritize herself. Just wanted to make sure you knew how powerful the work you are doing is to your clients. Thank you."
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- LISA M. (UK, 39)
"Working with Briana has been like transitioning from years of walking through low hanging clouds and finally stepping into the light and warmth of the day. I hadn't realized before our sessions just how much of my energy and playfulness were being zapped by a silent shame, nor had I explored the possibility of transforming that shameful internal voice into one of love. Briana's insights and the nurturing environment she creates in our sessions have brought me so much self-compassion and a blossoming connection with my inner child self that had been severed for so many years. The exercises work really deeply on the body and this has been a huge part of it for me - to truly feel the alternative state that's possible is so energizing! The full impact of our sessions will continue to unfold (and I can't wait!). Right now, I'm just so grateful to feel more connection, playfulness, understanding and love towards myself than I have for as long as I can remember."
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– Erin p. (29, USA)
“My sessions with Briana came at a time where I needed it most. She was able to hold precious space virtually & her presence was so inviting. She made me feel comfortable as I was moving through very uncomfortable feelings and challenges. I really honor the session that Briana facilitated - she was knowledgeable, intuitive, and helped me bring some really important insights to the surface. I felt it was safe for me to go into deep pains as she suggested helpful practices to move through them and I plan to use her suggested tools going forward. I highly recommend booking a session with Briana, especially if you are looking to step into your own power but feel there are some inner wounds holding you back. I am truly grateful for the experience.”
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– brigette D. (33, USA)
– LaurA C. (35, USA)
“I left the session with sudden clarity on how I wanted to refocus my business and shift my life. That feeling of joy and strength stayed with me throughout the week. I would highly recommend it to anyone looking for a reminder of how amazing they truly are. Thank you, Briana, for creating that sacred space!”
“My system is still recharging in a way but I can feel that the session moved a lot of things in a good direction. The experience was intense and brought a lot of hidden emotions to the surface. I am super grateful, even if I was dealing with a lot of scary emotions and feelings, it felt needed and absolutely right. Ever since I feel lighter and more aware of what I need to deal with in my daily life.”
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– Dana L. (38, UK)
“I found Briana to be a welcoming, warm, and very competent guide. The questions she asked were powerful right from the beginning, and in our time together, I felt more clarity than I have from nearly a year of sessions with a licensed counselor. She created a container in which I felt safe and seen. She also offered tangible tools for me to use moving forward, which I felt directly addressed the issues that came to the surface during our session. I definitely recommend reaching out to her if you're feeling stuck or confused!”
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– jill D. (48, USA)
– Lindsey H. (37, USA)
"I felt like I tapped into my innate strength and leadership abilities and also in the days that followed began to release a lot of pent-up grief. Briana makes the atmosphere safe and fun and intellectually stimulating, all of which are equally important to me. She is a gifted teacher."
"Briana does an amazing job creating space. I felt so comfortable and open with her, and felt she could be trusted with deep fears and insecurities. The safe space she created was so healing for self acceptance and I truly appreciated every minute. Thank you for the opportunity for self discovery and love!"
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The solution is to stop focusing on the superficial, band-aid solutions and commit to a process of deeper internal self-discovery BY developing your erotic fluency.
you do this by mastering four essential skills:
Erotic
GENIUS
What false or outdated beliefs block your energy from being expressed freely? How does your monkey mind keep you busy and block you from connection and being in your body? This is where we focus on things like transcending limiting beliefs, rewriting inherited scripts around sexuality, embracing full-spectrum aliveness, holding multiple truths, activating your seeking system and more. This all carries over into how we show up in the world and embody our authenticity and desires (which is hot, magnetic & powerful!).
Erotic
SELF-CARE
Erotic
CONFIDENCE
This is where we learn to let emotional cycles complete, and how to work with (and love) our most challenging qualities. Mastering erotic confidence is learning to stay with yourself, even when your emotional weather feels like an internal tornado. It's about not abandoning yourself when something makes you uncomfortable, distracting yourself, or letting auto-pilot take over. It's about presence. It's about stepping into that place beyond your experience but within your capacity – and it's crucial for a satisfying and fulfilling relationship and life.
Erotic
INTEGRITY
We all want more connection. Erotic integrity is where we step outside of the you-first approach and take your new found, empowered way of being out into the world. This is deeply experiential, somatic process. You will learn simple but incredibly impactful techniques to enhance connection and communication in every type of relationship. After this you will always know what to say on a first date, how to navigate conflict with your partner or ask for what you want in bed.
Pleasure isn't going to fix itself — you will have to do some work. But here's the catch: You can do it. Having a meaningful erotic connection, with yourself first, electrifies your relationship with all of reality and impacts EVERY area of your life. This is where we cover crucial embodiment skills, look at how body shame impacts your aliveness, and build your nervous system's capacity for experiencing pleasure – which is critical to your overall physical, spiritual, and emotional well-being.
erotic fluency is...
Learning these skills involves both knowledge and practical application, refined through direct experience and intentional practice. Its going beyond just helpful insights and towards creating a new reality and long lasting change.
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DO THIS NEXT:
- Book a clarity call
- Fill out the application
- Come to your call ready to hear all about what in-depth 1:1 coaching will look like.
You have the Power to change your erotic reality.
Are you ready?
- Two 90 minute sessions (first and last)
- 60 minutes sessions (each one in between)
- Light yet impactful homework
- Special assets only available to clients
- Access to me via messaging on Tues-Thurs (it'll be like I'm in your back pocket for quick-support, check-ins and celebrations!)
Twelve Sessions
12
- 60 minute sessions
- Light yet impactful homework
- Special assets only available to clients
Six Sessions
06
Erotic Fluency Program
Private 1:1 Sessions
FAQs
If you're sick of struggling to climax, feeling "blah" in your own body, or ready to re-energize your relationship, this is for you. If you crave less stress and more aliveness and connection, this is for you. If you have a growth mindset and are willing to invest in yourself, this is for you.
Yes. Low libido & desire discrepancy challenges, orgasm reclamation, conscious dating, and sacred sexuality.
In short, no. For most of my coaching career, my clientele has been split men/women/+. I enjoy working with everyone, and believe men are equally deserving and in need of support in the realm of sex, love, and relationships.
At this time, my work is focused on serving clients that identify as female, non-binary, queer or trans.
We can talk through all the pricing options and payment plans on your Clarity Call.
For 6 or 12 session packages if you're not confident after the first 3 or 6 sessions, you can be refunded for the remaining sessions, minus an administrative fee. Long-lasting change takes time, and an in-depth 1:1 program with me is designed and proven to help you find more ease and connection with yourself.
I love the enthusiasm! That's the mindset needed to get the biggest return on your effort. We'll chat schedule on our Clarity Call – but between you and me, the start date is usually a few weeks after that. Until then, I’ll send you helpful prep materials.